Hi, My boyfriend has just got out of hospital after having a manic episode that lasted a mont and a half. I just want to know what he is going through and how to live with it. He is not himself and very low which i was told is normal after a manic episode. Is there anyone that can help me understand what is he going through now when he's coming back to normal life after bing manic and how can he feel and what can i do to help him. I would also like to know how him coming back to reality and the way he feels can affect our relationship.
Hi Mags I want to welcome you to MT! I don't have any experience with what you're seeking some answers for, but other members might. Be patient, this forum can be a little bit slow.
I do know that it will help him by you being so supportive of him.
Hi Mags, I have bipolar and my husband doesn't so he has to deal with some of the same things u are describing. As someone who has been through the highs and the lows I've most appreciated it when my husband is available but not hovering. Sometimes I want to talk and a lot of times I just want to be left alone. Being manic (at least from my experience) can be very exhausting and can leave you drained and can sometimes feel like a letdown. Mania can feel great, you have lots of energy and see the world differently which is why depression can follow. Make your partner aware you are there for him and are willing to listen and be supportive. For yourself though it is important to live your own life as well. Self care is vital because it can be exhausting emotionally and physically taking care of someone else. Do things u enjoy, see friends and family and if need be talk to someone about what u are feeling with all this. I'm not sure if this has been helpful or not, but I hope it helps a little. Let me know if you have anymore questions that I might be able to answer.
Hi Mags, I have bipolar and my husband doesn't so he has to deal with some of the same things u are describing. As someone who has been through the highs and the lows I've most appreciated it when my husband is available but not hovering. Sometimes I want to talk and a lot of times I just want to be left alone. Being manic (at least from my experience) can be very exhausting and can leave you drained and can sometimes feel like a letdown. Mania can feel great, you have lots of energy and see the world differently which is why depression can follow. Make your partner aware you are there for him and are willing to listen and be supportive. For yourself though it is important to live your own life as well.ting emotionally and physically taking care of someone else. Do things u enjoy, see friends and family and if need be talk to someone about what u are feeling with all this. I'm not sure if this has been helpful or not, but I hope it helps a little. Let me know if you have anymore questions that I might be able to answer.
Living with a partner with bipolar disorder
Posted - 11/10/2010 : 11:55:11
