Wow thank you to all of those that replied to my post and all my previous posts. It it really is a wonderful feeling to know that there are people out there willing to listen to me. It is difficult to have a converstaion with someone who is always telling you that you are wrong and just not believing in what you have to say. I never really noticed my mother did this to me all the time until I got older but it is not just her. My father who I once had a close relationship with is here but not here. I am grateful that I have both my parents here but...It is nearly impossible to have a converstaion with my father, he is so into money. He is too much into money that it is hurting my parents' relationship and my other siblings as well as me. I am glad that I am a part of my therapy and have people who are listening to me really listening to what I have to say and how I feel. Thank you
Most people are only interested in themselves The only way to communicate with them is to say only yes or no. They don't want to hear something else. It is sometimes really nice that someone is listening to you and share his or her thoughts with you. But most people only talk to become a better job, more money or more status. I've learned to listen and people think that you are to quiet and not interesting anymore. You are right to write down your thoughts and we are very pleased to read them. It helps me.
Hearing but not Listening
Posted - 08/03/2007 : 20:21:38
