Our Code of Ethics strictly forbides members from contacting each other outside of our community. That means members can't exchange their e-mail addresses, telephone numbers, etc.
Over the years, we have had very serious problems resulting from members contacting each other outside of our community. Thus our anonymity is an essential protection against such harm.
If you want to date; please go to a dating website.
This is a therapeutic community. Our "no dating" rule is to ensure that we interact as equals, and not be caught up in compulsive sexualizing of relationships.
How Serious Are We About These Rules?
Any breaking of our anonymity rule is just cause for being banned from our community. It's that serious. So please stop this now.