This Can Be A Very Supportive Community If We All Abide By The Rules
This community was created so that people could come here to anonymously seek help, and in turn, help others.
Years of experience here has shown us that anonymity is absolutely essential for this healing experience.
Thus, in our Code Of Ethics, we state:
"To protect your anonymity, members should not communicate with each other off this site. We ask that members not exchange e-mail addresses, phone numbers or meet in person."
Almost invariably, whenever members break this rule, and communicate with another member offsite "in the real world", it turns out very poorly.
Please re-read our Code of Ethics (on the far left of your screen). These rules of conduct evolved over years of experience operating this self-help community. Our Code of Ethics are there for your own protection, and for the protection of others.
I agree ! This is what is happening NOW! Infighting, sadness, back biting. This place isn't a dating site nor a real time social CLUB. Thank you Doctor Long. I hope some form of peace can be re established.