I decided to check this site out since i feel that my mom has an issue with depression and maybe something else. But has not seen a doctor for it and I dont know how to tell her. Lately shes been saying shes "the chosen one" and sees signs from God. also has been dealing with psychics through the mail. Shes been divorced over 20 yrs ago and still talks about her break up, shes over weight due to over eating and eats the things I buy for me and my baby, shows no emotions during holidays, or when she gets gifts. Shes a compulsive shopper. our home is so cluttered, I often feel like i cant breathe. her bedroom is surrounded by boxes and some of the things are starting to be on her bed and she'll sleep with stuff on her bed. WOW! I can just go on and on... if someone has some advise please help this concerned daughter!
Being the chosen one and seeing signs from God....are signs of schizophrenia....I know...I had that delussion too.
Your Mum does need to see a doctor but how to get her there is the problem.
Some people do take time to get over a break up...perhaps you could suggest she might feel better if she talks to a counsellor who hopefully might pick up on her deeper problems.
Emotional eating is so common but to eat your child and grandchilds food is completely unreasonable and YOU should start setting at least that boundary with her.
As you live in your Mums house you really can't complain how she keeps it...can you?If you were my daughter and did'nt like my house keeping I'd tell you if you don't like it do something about it....or just start clearing areas and see how she reacts.
It is sad that your Mums room is such a mess....can you offer to help her sort it?
You really can only control your own room.
I'm afraid until your mum gets help it will be up to you to keep the bathroom and kitchen clean...and organized.Label your food clearly.
Do you have an emergency mental health team in your area...you just might need it....even contact them yourself so you have some one close if she gets worse.
Keep in touch...we are here for you and your baby.
Thank you for your honesty and advice. it was very helpful...
quote:Originally posted by khaz
Hi Welcome to My Therapy
Being the chosen one and seeing signs from God....are signs of schizophrenia....I know...I had that delussion too.
Your Mum does need to see a doctor but how to get her there is the problem.
Some people do take time to get over a break up...perhaps you could suggest she might feel better if she talks to a counsellor who hopefully might pick up on her deeper problems.
Emotional eating is so common but to eat your child and grandchilds food is completely unreasonable and YOU should start setting at least that boundary with her.
As you live in your Mums house you really can't complain how she keeps it...can you?If you were my daughter and did'nt like my house keeping I'd tell you if you don't like it do something about it....or just start clearing areas and see how she reacts.
It is sad that your Mums room is such a mess....can you offer to help her sort it?
You really can only control your own room.
I'm afraid until your mum gets help it will be up to you to keep the bathroom and kitchen clean...and organized.Label your food clearly.
Do you have an emergency mental health team in your area...you just might need it....even contact them yourself so you have some one close if she gets worse.
Keep in touch...we are here for you and your baby.
my mom needs help!
Posted - 07/01/2010 : 03:07:55
