well hello im kinda new to this but i guess my depression started from when i was little. my father left my mother with 6 kids just after my 5th birthday. my mother went though a span of abuisive boyfriends. when i was 10 i found this one guy that i tought i would be happy with we dated off and on for 6 years. we broke up. i found another guy we were happy i guess intill now im 18 about to be 19 i have a little baby girl that just turned 9 months old we kinda broke up i guess i want him back so bad that it hurts i love him to death we fought so much because i have a being alone proublem it scares me and he likes to go out with his friends i know that but because we do have a little girl its hard for us to go out a the same time because its hard to find a babysitter for her so theres proublems there he says he dont want anything to do with me inless it has to do with our daughter like i said i love the man to death his sister told me that he loves me still to and that hes just going through a stupid moment and that i need to not give up on him like i said i love the man with all my heart and i dot want to lose him. i dont want our daughter to grow up the way i did in a broke up family i dont want that for her she deserveise better then what i had i want to give her more then that i just have to work things out with her father to give her the life that she deservise so if any one can help me out and let me know what i should do or can or to make this better for the three of us that would be GREAT.
Welcome to My Therapy which I guess many of us have found when our lives have been challeging to say the least...It must be very difficult and distressing to be having these relationship hassles when you have such a little girl to look after.
I will say as the mum of 3 somewhat older children that giving yourself time off having a babysitter for even a couple of hours a week will give you time for yourself to look after you and time to think without worrying about the next cry etc...babies are the best but they are full on...I am sure some one is just waiting to be asked to look after your little one especially if all their children are off to school.
On My Therapy you are not alone so welcome from me and keep posting, someone will have an idea that might be just what you are looking for.
well thank you yea i do need time to fix myself and figure out whats going on with me really and yea it is hard with her not like having her but having to always be around her but yea i found this site and im hoping that maybe just maybe theres someone out there that know what im going through and just might be able to help me because like i said before i love the man to death and i really want him back but i DO need to figure out whats wrong with me and fix it before i can fix us hopfully he'll give me the time of day and actully talk to me.
I'm sorry you are going through so much stress with this guy. I'm 17 and I've been in a few serious relationships that have ended badly for me. It's hard for me not to get attached and it has never stopped hurting me to lose them.
In fact, I just recently lost my loved one because his father won't allow me in his life.
Take a deep breath and try to be strong and independent. You can do this. You don't need to have him in your life and your baby can be just as happy with just you. She's not growing up with too many other children. It's just you and her, so she gets more attention from you.
Jody And there’ll be no worries to crack our faces No empty holes or open spaces Just you and I and all that traces Just you and I and all that lies between Just you and I, Oh nothing comes between Just you and I till something comes between Just you and I, but oh they come between us now
yea but thats the thing i WANT him back because i know how it is growing up without two perants in your life its hard and it hurts so i dont want that for her and yea i know about the whole perants thing i dont think and see that his mom wants me to be with him for some reason or another. he has proublems to alot so i know where he comes from to but he doesnt want to do anything for himself because his mom will do it for him his dad is doing what needs to be done for him to want to do anything for himself and me and his daughter they hae to stop doing everything for him well his mom anyway because his dads going to kick him out because we were living with them i dont anymore but he does his mom will give him anything he wants he wants pop she'll buy it for him he wants ciggerits she'll buy them for him he wants money to go to the bar she'll give it to him his perants fight all the time because his dad know what hes doing and want him to be better want him to be good with his family be good with his life but everything his dad throws at him u know wanting to kick him out fight with him to be a better person his mom is right there to tell him that its ok that she'll figure out something and you know but like i said in order for him to get better she needs to do what his dad is trying to do.
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