I don't know whether everyone would want this, but it has made a huge difference to my life.....
After years of deterministic therapy (ie entirely doctor-determined treatment) with corresponding rebellion and multiple changes of therapist from me, I found a doctor who, once she realised that I was well-aware of my options and consequences, allowed me to make my own decisions regarding all aspects of my treatment. She would suggest (guide) and provide objective information/feedback then step back and let me get on with it. As a result of being treated like a responsible adult, I actually became one! For the last nine years I have not been in hospital nor have I attempted suicide. I have been compliant with medication, and responsible for communicating my early warning psychotic symptoms. I have felt respected and in control of my own life for the first time....
I'm a new member but I felt compiled to respond to this post/topic though it's old. I totally agree with Zep. I stopped seeing my therapist two weeks ago because she would not allow me to be a responsible adult and have a say in the treatment plans she offered. After I realized I wasn't feeling any better, I called it quits. Now I'm on a haunt for a new therapist.